The Henry's

The Henry's

On the 6th August 2021, we lost a son, brother, and friend to so many of us. Hayden White never failed to light up a room with his undying energy, always putting a smile on everyone's faces with his cheeky antics. He was genuine, funny and always cared for what people had to say. His name will forever continue on.


During the coming months, the boys and I will sport a mullet and raise funds to show support for mental health research, all dedicated to Hayden. A donation of any amount would be greatly appreciated.


1 in 5 of us will experience symptoms of mental illness in any given year. In Australia that’s around 5 million people. And roughly 60% of these people won’t seek help.


Please donate to and support our mullets and empower everyone in Australia to look after their mental health. 


This is for you Hayden.

Thank you to our Sponsors

$5.02k

Mahony Group Pty Ltd

On behalf of Luke Patterson, from everyone at Mahony Group

$2.02k

Melanie White

From mum, I love you from the bottom of my heart, I’ll miss you so much ❤️❤️

$1.02k

Don Tilt

$1.02k

Declan Carlisle

Long live Haydo ❤️❤️

$1.02k

Adi Corporation

Good on you Thomas, a great cause. I hope this little bit helps to eradicate this from happening again!

$555

Billy Robison

Rest in Peace Hayden

$515

National Time Recorders

Forever in my heart, you are the first star in the evening sky, Lov ya Haydo

$515

Rach, Tony, Jess & Bella Xxxx

So much love from the whole Mesite family. Hayden your infectious smile and light will always be in our hearts. ❤️

$515

Julliard Family

❤️❤️❤️

$515

Heath Blinco

My heart goes out to you and the family mate. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

$515

Debbie Mcguane

Hayden you are a beautiful sole who lit up the lives of all you touched. We will miss you but will always remember you with love and laughter.

$515

Ashlin Carlisle

HENRY ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

$500

Ian Christophers

Thinking of you all from Kiama Ian and Cecilia

$500

Luke Simpson

Rest easy Hayden, you will always be loved ❤️

$500

Josh Jones

Dedicated to Hayden

$500

Kyle Fairhall

$500

Russell White

Much love Mandi & Russell xxxx ❤️

$500

Donaldson Australasia Pty Ltd

Donaldson would like to let Hayden's family know that they are thinking of them at this time and send our condolences to you all.

$312

Maddi Williams

rest easy Hayden ❤️❤️❤️

$312

Thomas White

$260

Uncle John, Auntie Di, Andrew And David Cox-taylor

You are in our thoughts and prayers at this extremely sad and difficult time. Thomas you are doing such a really great thing raising funds in memory of Hayden and we are very proud of you.

$260

Claire Willoughby

I’ll never forget you Hayden I miss you everyday ❤️

$260

Paardekooper

For Henry 💕

$260

Isabella Mesite

I will always remember our amazing memories growing up together and I think of both you and Hayden as my brothers. Im sending my love to you Thomas and Aunty Mel I love you both ❤️

$260

Nelson Santiago Jr

Rest in paradise henry ❤️

$260

Michael Bibby

❤️

$250

Jett Mccarthy

Miss you bro

$250

Jax

5 years of memories, gonna miss you haydos ❤️

$250

Guy Burlinson

Much love mate.

$250

Chubby Welsh Autos - Clint Welsh

Great Cause

$250

Nathan Fallick

In loving memory of my cousin and mate. RIP.... Nath

$250

Annabelle Peacock

I’m so sorry for your loss, sending so much love to you and your family ❤️❤️

$222

Joel + Mindi

💙 Fly high Hayden💙 You will be so heavily missed, life already feels so empty with out you. 💙 Love you forever bro 💙

$208

Chloe Arathoon

From my Nan and I ❤️

$208

Zac Sambals

$208

Alex Magno

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

$208

Riley Lutton

Henryyyy ❤️

$208

Theunissen Family

🤍🕊

$208

Glovebox

Truly enjoyed training you Haydos. You were a real pleasure!!!! loved your cheeky smile every time you walked into Glovebox.You had a beautiful kind soul.RIP my little mate.Paul,Ange,Josh and Billy .🙏❤️

$156

Carly Ritchie

💛 Carly and Jess xx

$156

Sam Golombick

$156

Dave And Kylie Kirkland

$120

Brett Y

$120

Sam Mcilrath

Thinking of you all lots!! He had so many great friends and the best brother anyone could ask for 🤍🕊

$104

Lauren Broughton

Love and thoughts to everyone xx

$104

Finn O’neill

$104

Matt Cross & Gess Innocent

Thinking of you all 🙏

$104

Simon Harrop

Our love and thoughts are with you.

$104

Uncle Bob And Family From America

We are truly saddened at this news of Hayden. We wish we were closer. We love you Melanie, Thomas and Joel and your family ❤️ Rest In Peace precious Hayden ❤️ You are loved and will be so very missed 😢

$104

Grace Dube

$104

Rob Chamberlin

$104

Zilla Gilmour

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

$104

Skeg Maleg

$104

Colin Ingersoll

$104

Leigh Giddy

Hey Ivana and Jordan - a good thing to do - very tough circumstances my heart goes out to you

$104

Ivana Katz

Thinking of you and your family every day.

$104

C Magno

Condolence from the Magno Family

$104

Maia Moffat

❤️❤️❤️

$104

Ollie Wyatt

Henry

$104

Marion Mcguane

Such a terrible tragedy my heart goes out to all his family and friends

$104

Sally Hallifax

With love, from Sally, Paul, Elke & Jarvis xx

$104

Tony White

$104

Vinnie Monteiro

$104

Sandra Edwards

We are friends of Di & John Cox-Taylor we live at Cranbrook with them, hope this donation helps someone who is struggling

$104

Andrew Davies

Thoughts are with you all

$104

Alan Jarrett

$104

Annie Haldane

🕊🤍

$104

Luke Harkness

$104

Susan Woodward

I'm sure Hayden would be very proud of what you are doing in his memory.

$104

Britt Vince

❤️❤️❤️❤️

$104

Scott Mcinerney

$104

Kristy Richards

$104

Lulu’s Mum

Rest peacefully dear Hayden Always in our ♥️

$104

Samuel Jaggs

$104

Finlay Coates

Love to you and your family. Hayden was the best of us. Love from the Coates family.

$104

Nick Adam

Goos tuff guys keep up the good work

$104

Ken Christensen

This is a great thing your doing Tom. All our love Kate,Ken,Sophie,zoe

$104

Cooper Syron

❤️❤️

$104

Sue Worchurst

A great cause and a beautiful gesture Tom for awareness. All our love Sue Finn and Peter In QLD.

$104

Alison Tibbels

$104

Jake Sheather

From mum and I ❤️❤️❤️

$104

Anonymous

$104

Brierley Family

$104

Gaty Simpson

$104

Paris Ruwald

♥️

$104

Susan Lloyd

Go Tiny, supporting you and your Mum all the way from Victoria!

$104

Grace O'leary

$104

Olivia Morris

$104

Benjamin Andrich

RIP Hayden. My heartfelt condolences to the whole family. Great initiative this is too.

$104

Jared Mitchell

$104

Paul And Kelli Marnoch

$104

Kathy Simpson

My thoughts are with you all at this difficult time. Love the Simmo’s 😘

$104

Melissa Wardell

Beautiful boy with a contagious smile always remembered but never forgot. ❤️❤️

$104

Murray & Lisa Gilmour

❤️

$100

Skye Kirkland

Never forgotten ❤️

$100

Kaleb Patterson

$100

Leanne Mclean

With love from the family of Noah Rumbold to yours, we are truly saddened by your great loss.

$100

Mon, Dave, Harry And Will Allan

Dear Tom sending you strength at this devastating time. Well done on such a thoughtful initiative! Thinking of you and your family. Hayden was a dear friend to Will. The Allan Family

$100

Jo Stacey

$100

Cruz Mccarthy

So sorry to hear bro stay strong shoot us a message if you ever need anyone to talk to much love

$100

Jordan Katz

$100

Cameron Mcdonald

Great work boys! From the Science team at NSHS

$100

Isabel Hewes

Thinking of you all ❤️ This is such an awesome cause. ❤️

$100

Wombat

$100

Elijah Fernandez

❤️❤️

$100

Janet Carroll

Sending love from Janet Carroll and family

$78

Francesco Cimino

I just wanted to let u know, ur Hayden was an incredible person. He brought nothing but the light to the people around him ❤️

$76

Jack Robison

$75

Nina Quilter

$75

Ellie Copping

Always here❤️

$73

Zoe Cartwright

💛

$62

Tim Ives

always in our hearts haydos

$54

Max Barratt

$52

Jeremy Gregg

Hey bro no we Only met handful of times but i just wanna say how sorry I am for what has happened it’s not fair at all . Chuck us a text anytime I’ll be around ❤️

$52

Lynette Mcdonald

$52

Sue Bruyn

What a wonderful way to honour Hayden ❤️

$52

Trent

Rest easy lord.

$52

Boucher Family

Thinking of you and your family. The way you are channeling your grief is inspiring Tom and will make an difference.

$52

Ben Murdock

Sending love to all family and friends

$52

Jenny Hermann

$52

Liza Christensen

$52

Belinda Volkov

A beautiful soul Gone too soon Never forgotten

$52

Chloe Jones

$52

Kai Yakich

$52

Aisha Alas

For Hayden. Never forgotten 🤍

$52

Will Allan

❤️❤️

$52

Trudy Jacobs

Thomas ,Joel , Melanie and Mindy we are so very sorry for your loss and our thoughts are with you all in these difficult days Trudy&Peter Patricks parents

$52

Connor Shapcott

$52

Beno

Rip haydo ❤️❤️❤️❤️

$52

Isabella Norris

🤍🕊 You ment a lot to my little brothers and friends, such a good mate, memories we will all cherish together.

$52

Pauline Bannon

$52

Boofa

$52

Sam Watt

Love ya tommy always with ya catch up soon

$52

Jett Stocken

For Henry❤️

$52

Scott Ewing

Wishing you boys all the best through these difficult times. Keep all the positive epic memories of your mate shining brightly in your thoughts. Feel free to reach out if your struggling to deal with any emotions. Take care 🙌👌

$52

Hamish Scott

$52

Lili Ramundi

$52

Ladybug Gardening

Sending hugs. Well done boys xx 💕

$52

Cassie Cale

$52

Matt D

$52

Natalie Carroll

Well done Tom, you are doing a wonderful job. Lots of love and strength to you, Joel, Mum and Dad xx

$52

Maxine Fernandez

Rest In Peace Hayden ❤️ Our thoughts are with your beautiful family xx

$52

Cooper C

$52

Anonymous

$52

Max Leonard

$52

Milly Edwards

Forever in our hearts ❤️

$52

Jane

Rest in peace ❤

$52

Kristine Mccarthy

Mel, my heart breaks for you! I haven’t stopped thinking of you all, sending lots of love & hugs xo

$52

Anonymous

RIP Hayden, a good thing you boys are doing 👍

$52

Jessie Baillo

$52

Jack Spencer

$52

Maddie Binding

Forever in our hearts💔

$52

Ross Thomson

$52

Belinda Paul

$52

Elly Van Rheeden

Forever loved ❤️

$52

Jack Chapman

Rest easy Haydos, love you mate❤️💙

$52

Hanna Dufty

$52

Tiah Szann

❤️❤️

$52

Nonie

We miss you Hayden ❤️

$52

Leanne Wickenden

$52

Maria Frank

So sorry to you & your family for your loss

$52

Thomas Woodward

You’re going to missed by absolutely everyone mate. Fly high❤️❤️ Love from the Woodward’s

$52

The Elliotts

$52

Elissa Ford

$52

Jon Duhig

$52

Nina Lindley

💙

$52

H. Elliott

So sorry for your loss. An incredibly important cause 🙏🏻

$52

The Yakich Family

You will be so very missed by all your mates and your memory will bring happiness thinking of your beautiful family. Kai Bailey Julia and Carl xxx

$52

Jacqui Grove

$52

Anonymous

$52

Piper Martin

For Henry ❤️

$52

Chloe White

❤️❤️❤️

$52

Jacqueline Hampson

My thoughts are with you and the family during this difficult time. This is a beautiful display of community strength and support xx

$52

Martin Tan

❣️

$52

Zach Tunbridge

$52

The Skirka Family

I’m so sorry to hear this, sending our thoughts

$52

Alison Van Rheeden

$52

Robyn & Ean Gardner

$52

Nette Theunissen

Rest In Peace Hayden 🤍

$52

Anonymous

🤍

$52

Zane Richards

$52

Damo Clarke

❤️❤️

$52

Josie Theunissen

🤍🤍🤍

$52

Tracy Jones

I hope you are OK Tom. A big hug and kiss is waiting for you when we can x

$52

Sammy Hargy

Fly High Legend🕊💗

$52

Ahora A.y

Stay strong bro, His memory will forever live on. Love and prayers to you and your family ❤️

$52

Schoneveld Family

Sending love xxxx

$52

Daniel

Hey mate hope you’re doing ok, just letting know that my brother and I will also be doing mullets for the cause. Sending our best wishes

$52

Anonymous

❤️

$52

Jenny Grant

Miss you mate , Byron &Jenny Grant❤️

$52

Harry Finlay

❤️

$52

Angela Moffat

Thinking of you

$52

Baillee Richards

💛💛💛

$52

Daniel Ritsinias

$52

Simione Powell

Hi Thomas, this is a lovely thing you are doing in your brothers memory. I am so sorry for your loss. I am a friend of Gaye’s from work and it really broke all of our hearts to hear the news about your brother. Sending you and your family and Hayden’s friends lots of love.

$52

Jas Hargy

❤️

$52

Kercher Family

Our thoughts are with you and your family.

$52

Matt Kelson

I hope you have found peace mate, my love to you, your family, and all of your friends. If anyone is struggling and needs anything at all, pls yell out and contact me. Much love X Mr K

$52

Khye Bakker

$52

Emma Sackett

$52

Lily Grant

❤️

$52

Anonymous

$52

Bronte Hanson

I hope you’ve found your peace Hayden ❤️ Sending all my love

$52

Daniel Pearce

$52

Nina Ramsay

$52

Cameron Jones

We all love ya g 🕊🕊

$52

Mitch Barber

Surleyyyyyy

$52

Luke Patterson

$52

Marie-claire Geach

❤️

$50

Anonymous

Rest peacefuly Hayden. Stay strong Tom.

$50

Jordan Katz

$50

Karli Naylor

We love and support you❤❤

$50

Sue Lumb

$50

Asx On Behalf Of Sue Lumb

ASX Limited Donation Matching for Sue Lumb

$50

Marlee Hottes

$50

Luka Vigour

always here for you ❤️

$50

Jazmin Ball

💛

$50

Justin Ouyang

$50

Emma And Nick Ives

For Tim’s friend Hayden, Thinking of everyone at this time x

$50

Tiana Dimova

❤️

$50

Nesci Family

You go Thomas. So heartbreaking 💔

$50

Hannah

❤️

$50

Ellie Tassone

$50

Anonymous

$50

Charlie Stead

🕊🤍

$50

Poppy Elliott

Rest easy Hayden🤍

$50

Mia Rose

❤️🕊

$50

Anonymous

$50

Lauren Tinni

<3

$48

Tim Adam

Well done legends and here's a donation to get you over your target....

$42

Samantha Caller

$42

Nate Bakon

❤️

$42

April Russell

I didn’t know Hayden personally but I will never forget him sending love to his family and friends and anyone who has been touched by what’s happened, always here to talk x

$42

Archie Curtus

$40

Jasmine Young

$34

Tommy Cronan

i’ll miss you more than anything hayden. special love to you, your family, and everyone involved in #mulletsformentalhealth.

$31

Bettina Cilia

$31

Anonymous

$31

Luke Harvey

To raise awareness and for Hayden

$31

Annabel Sandercock

$31

Caitlin Worboys

$31

Charli Steedman

♥️

$31

Jarrod Bridges

❤️❤️

$31

Brianna

$31

Jennifer Clugston

To sad for words. Jennifer Clugston - Riley Lutton’s Nan.

$31

Charlie Kingsbury

For Hayden, forever in our hearts

$31

Allie Carthew

$31

Portia Stevenson

🤍🤍🤍

$31

Ellie Devitt

sending love 🤍

$31

Hana Katz

$31

Kara M

$31

Anonymous

$31

Anonymous

$30

Maya O’neill

Rest easy Hayden ❤️

$30

Fletcher Holdich

$30

Caity Waller

Rest Easy Hayden ❤️❤️ you were an amazing guy to everyone and anyone, never forgotten 🙏🏽🙏🏽

$26

Donna Earsman

$26

James Hall

$26

Simone Hersee

$26

Tom Cooper

$26

Anonymous

$26

Thea Waring

$26

Anonymous

$26

Anonymous

You’re never alone. There is always help. You are loved more than you know.

$26

Charlotte Ellks

$26

Issy Rawson

$26

Daniel Mcguigan

$26

Bella Hampson

$26

Carolyn Thom

$26

Levi D

🤍

$26

Anonymous

$26

Teagan Ellis

$25

James Barratt

You meant so much to my little brother and all his mates, thankyou for being part of their lives. The memories will forever live on

$25

Daniella Glur

forever in our hearts legend ♾❤️

$21

Maxine Garcia

$21

Alec Bryant

$21

Zoey Ash

$21

Bluss

$21

Jess Cleary

$21

Mia Martens

❤️❤️❤️❤️

$21

Charlotte Davanzo

❤️

$21

Luke Hercules

❤️

$21

Cedar Leigh

$21

Aidan O’malley

Sending love to Hayden and your family ❤️

$21

Luke Patterson

$21

Kiarna Osborne

$21

Isabella Williamson

🤍

$21

Daniel King

Love ya man ❤️ Always here for you

$21

Zac Elliott

$21

Anonymous

$21

Zac Elliott

$21

Tayanita

$21

Alana

great initative in very sad circumstances, all the best

$21

Leanne Seghers

$21

Anonymous

$21

Gracie Marnoch

$21

Daniel Webby

$21

Anonymous

I’m so sorry for your loss, i hope this helps at least a little bit!! sending lots of love to your family and all your supportive mates xxxx

$21

Henry Frank

For henry

$21

Ulla Prowse

$21

Alan Harford

❤️❤️🕊❤️❤️

$21

Ben Shultz

$21

Will Kennedy

Lots of love 💜

$21

Mia Hackett

$21

Anonymous

$21

Tiarna Mccombe

$21

Max Schoneveld

Im here for you bro.

$21

Charlie Selvage

♥️♥️♥️

$21

Emma Van Koesveld

❤️❤️❤️

$21

Anonymous

R.I.P Legend forever in our hearts ❤️

$21

Georgie

$21

Naomi Barham

$21

Zara M

$21

Jenny Goat Garden

$21

Anonymous

$21

Alex Hagley

$21

Tess

❤️❤️

$21

Brennan

Love you brother

$21

Julia Judge

Hope this helps ❤️

$21

Anonymous

$21

Anonymous

Thinking of the sadness the family will be going through. Hope this helps some other family to not have to go through something like this.

$21

Matt Berry

$21

Sasha Mckune

❤️❤️

$21

Sophia Powe

🤍🤍

$21

Anonymous

$21

Jessica Carlson

$21

Myles Clissold

$21

Adam Annable

Love this. It's so important at times like these! Well done for promoting this for others that may be in need. Best wishes & My sincerest condolences for Hayden, Adam Annable

$21

Byron Grant

$20

Sam & Garry Moore

$20

Anonymous

$20

Cameron Mcneil

$20

Lillie

H ❤️❤️

$20

Danielle Hulme

$16

Anonymous

$16

Matt Watman

$16

Tegan

❤️ proud of u guys

$16

Alice Wensing

So sorry for your family’s loss! 💗

$16

Paris Whiteley

$16

Anonymous

$16

Karla Hrnjak

$16

Denise Montemor

$16

Kody Brian

$16

Madison Magno

$10

Tayler Downey

So sorry to hear about your brother

$10

Paris Cutler

$10

Anonymous

$10

Phebe

❤️❤️❤️

$10

Zane Frank

Rest in heaven legend 👑❤️

$10

Stevie Bullen

So happy to support this for an amazing cause. Rest in paradise Hayden ❤️

$10

Anonymous

$10

Gavin Anderson

$10

Anonymous

He will be missed dearly. The most genuine and kind person ❤️

$10

Anonymous

$10

Anonymous

$10

Jack Catterall

$10

Riven Gallagher

much love ❤️

$10

The Holmes Family, Port Macquarie

$10

Anonymous

$10

Kristy Williams

$10

Lachie Barber

$10

Chloe Arathoon

Sending love to you and your family ❤️ So glad I can donate and spread awareness

$10

Mahlia King

$5

Anonymous

$5

Brodie Folkard

I am sorry about what happened. Hopefully things look up for you in the future. May Hayden rest in pieces

$5

Jordan

❤️

$5

Anonymous

$5

Anonymous

$2

Jai Garness

$2

Anonymous

I came over many times and had amazing memories with hayden, hes was a good soul and a very smart person. he knew code to emotional feeling he will be forever missed I'm so sorry to your brother,mother and father and all friends and family

$2

Tom Smith